Re: Anth, would you feel the same if you had a friend
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Posted by: Anna ® 04/24/2005, 17:13:40 Author Profile Edit Alert Moderators

I totally agree with what you say Anth. The posts that I've just read in this thread, two sentences really stand out to me: Anth: I think dumping friends because they are premies is as stupid as dumping friends because they become ex-premies. Tempora: Be honest, of good conscience, free thinking, caring and non-judgemental. I want to aspire to Tempora's suggestion, and try to be like that towards my friends, especially non-judgemental. And hopefully receive the same back from them, premies or not. True friendship embodies trust, that will survive major life changes, like becoming an ex for example. That's not to say that we should not, on this forum, discuss issues in a judgemental way. How we handle our personal friendships is a separate thing altogether.

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Being "non-judgemental" in this situation is confused and misguided --- Jim ( Sun, Apr 24, 2005, 21:17:09 ) ( 1421 bytes ) +2 Re: Being "non-judgemental" in this situation is confused and misgu... --- AJW ( Mon, Apr 25, 2005, 09:47:04 ) ( 1728 bytes ) +2 Please see private message AJW (no text) --- Tempora ( Mon, Apr 25, 2005, 10:05:24 ) ( 0 bytes ) Regular v. Career Premies --- Joe ( Mon, Apr 25, 2005, 11:48:26 ) ( 1261 bytes ) +2 dissolving sectors --- ghi ( Wed, Apr 27, 2005, 01:55:08 ) ( 1126 bytes ) +2 clear as mud --- gerry ( Wed, Apr 27, 2005, 09:47:29 ) ( 235 bytes ) I don't think that's the case with the person I spoke with --- Joe ( Wed, Apr 27, 2005, 11:38:20 ) ( 967 bytes ) The path out of the cult. --- AJW ( Wed, Apr 27, 2005, 04:18:21 ) ( 374 bytes ) No it's not, you should try it sometime --- Anna ( Mon, Apr 25, 2005, 17:30:05 ) ( 1901 bytes )