Hi lexy I am glad  to have read the atachment at least someone realises the difficulty"s involved

It is my feeling at the moment that there is something very wrong with this K.

30 years is a very long time and especially when one was a child as well to have to try to extract ones self ......to me anyway from this whole sorry mess

I have taken or am taking her advice about  stopping the HN I think it is the best thing to do overall

 Any love and peace