"..but as far as expressing oneself in an environment as unique as this one it behoves me to suspend my judgements of what people think or say or do and just let them be."
Most respectfully, Suzy, I have to disagree.
see right there you have a problem, is it alright for me to disagree with not disagreeing?
I do disagree, on several counts.
First of should I come here and start talking about this wonderful yoga teacher and how I got inspired to reconnect with my breath and how good it feels to help world peace by working on the meditation retreat he is building in the hills I hope someone would say something.
second - this is the forum, Suzy! formed by and for exiting premies. We're so lucky to have it. It's a rare spot in the world, where you can safely get some feedback while unpacking the box and sorting it.
third - why stifle that? I love the way 13 says judge away, it's good for you!
The idea of suspending judgement is a huge and interesting topic. I am getting really full of thoughts about it so I will give up on writing something sensible right now. but wouldn't you like not so much to suspend judgement as open it up and not have it offended against but just allowed to be?
