hi Susan! thanks for your response and ALL your generous and what I find centered, thought/heart-ful, spot on and thorough posts/responses here and what I have on FB glimpses (without a FB account)
I mostly appreciate you capacity from clearly a healed and wise place in regards to sexual abuse experience how you stand in truth to those who painfully lack compassion and caring to those of us who have experienced sexual abuse, that is all in regards to Hans' courageous speaking out
I have never spoken with other adults who grew up as children of premies, and honestly, not even my brother....for many years we have been estranged as he was very abusive with me from as young as I remember til I was 14 and by then I felt no bond with him...it is actually the healing I have been blessed with in these past 11 days of finding all this truth telling about the mirage and that my dad WAS in a cult that I have been propelled, thankfully!, into profound compassion and grief for the tragic results the cult, and losing our father still has on my brother....because now I get it was the cult leader's direct orders to leave your family (I had no idea to what extent this was so with my father) that caused my father to abandon us for two years, and when my mother got us reconnected it was never the same closeness, ever.
thank you for honoring me listening to my gut...I appreciate so deeply being seen here, supportive, and valued for my true real experience.
blessings and gratitude,
Yasma
