Guidelines I think about. Sexual assault victims are in charge of telling their own story when and if they choose to. Parents have rights and a duty to protect their own minor children. Naming rank and file premies isn't the point, it's what they say and do, not who they are. That a family member speaking out faces things that we do not. That any of us speaking out face some level of risk. I would say that erring on the side of validating that Hans and/or Shana want something posted is respectful.  Hans and Shana are adults, with agency, and remember to consider yourself at 35 or 45 and interact with them in a non parental way.  That he was our spiritual baby brother was fed to us and could be at work in the cobwebs of our subconcious. While he was the baby and boy we knew on the stage, in the magazines etc, it is more akin to how one feels they "know" a celebrity child and was staged to evoke certain emotions and impressions. They have agency over their own lives.