Yes, I am sure I might have been a little unusual, the age I was 13-17 exactly when the kids were being born and plastered all over everything.
I think the hesitancy is for a reason, if I feel hesitancy I do tend to listen to it and think a little more before I make a decision. But my list is just really my list of things that I think about when I am considering things, certainly not any secret message in there, but validation that I too think about it yes. I make mistakes, but those are some things I think about I thought I would share, as I find the ideas helpful. Glad the kids isn't something with as many cobwebs as I have!
Susan