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For me.. it was one of the early warning signs I saw that things weren't working:
referring to: 'interference in a marriage relationship seems pretty serious to me,'
I began to notice that, premies routinely regarded bonds related to their position
on the premie ladder, or service; as based on more sacred ground than those bonds
formed; when marriage vows are undertaken.
This is, actually, an interference already, which caused many marriages to fail.
This sounds gloomy, I'm sorry, but warning lights are going off on many floors here.
I have watched powerless, yes, to help friends with their obsessive need to suddenly
disappear, to Miami or wherever: Only to return home, changed. Really changed.
Changed in their loyalties, their caring, their sense of duty, their heart!
What do you say to a friend who's relationships keep failing to withstand his
returning weeks late, having blown the rent and lost his guitar at the airport.
What do you say to his girlfriend?
I wish you and your husband every happiness in marriage, I honour your courage,
in recognition that we all have our unique challenges,
no doubt, somewhere, that we chose.
Sometimes we are driven by a search for knowledge or understanding that is noble;
but this is what also renders us vulnerable to the mind traps mentioned herewith.
We are thinking of you
lp
Modified by LP at Fri, May 19, 2006, 05:39:28
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