I'm not trying to control you, Neville. Why would I want to do that?  That forum is off-topic here. Period.  I was telling you how that place makes me feel.  This is not about you, Neville, it's about me.  I told you how it makes me feel.  I do having feelings, too, Neville.

I'm telling you right now that the mere mention of that forum causes me to literally start shaking.  I'm not exaggerating about this one bit.  It humiliates me and demeans me.  Three years of it, Neville.  And you know what makes it even worse?  I've never once posted on that forum.  Not one post, and they post about me, sometimes using my name, my real name all of the time.

You've been inciting them to smear my name here and on AAA.  Thanks a lot. 

Post wherever the hell you please, but if you do feel the great urge and need to mention something about it or advertise about it, there's always AAA at your disposal where there aren't any rules about it.

This forum is the only place on the internet where I am safe from those libelling creeps.  That's another point you don't seem to get, but, whatever floats  your boat.