Anyone who was reading this site in 2000-2001 recall Bjorn? He repetitively demanded the gory details of Jagdeo abuse survivors. No victim owes that to anyone.
The only appropriate people to ask such questions are law enforcement officers and therapists, not just ordinary ones, but those who have specialized sexual assault education.
Such questioning may also happen in the context of civil or criminal litigation, and because the experience is so traumatic for victims, it is part of why sexual assault is so underreported.
Thank you 13, so much of this brings back memories from 20+ years ago.