But actually come to think of it, I don't really care what level of depravity she could be brainwashed into I am now in Cynthia's camp too - mother of the child.

And I don't know how you can participate and still be blindfold?

Paedophilia is one of those things people just don't speak about as happening within families and I think it is very hard to talk about, creating emotional storms in the family - I couldn't think more highly of Shana's comment of dealing with it honestly tho, good for her, gold stars across the heavens, whatever happens.