Rawat of course lives by just the one absolute - more for him.

I saw on the TV Louis Theroux interviewing American children who are being given meds.  And he is saying to the mother that after interviewing her son all he can say for sure is that he has Asberger's traits and she replies good, that means the medication is working.  

After watching him speak to these children my view, which had been that it isn't a good idea to medicate children, had completely changed.  

Medication was just making it halfway bearable to live with the unbearable.  Not all the children, there were definitely some who were basically nice kids.

But there was more than one monster.  Really.  Little monsters and it wasn't a matter of learning to cooperate with their family - that wasn't going to happen no matter what.

No wonder love matters so much.