You can decry against the shallowness of a cliche as quickly as it's being said on the tongue, but why not press into a person's depths beyond the shallowness.  Decrying to their face or announcing publicly the cheapness and shallowess you suspect or do see in a person you interacting with...won't that just surely create walls to the usefulness of the communication.

 

Anyway it seems to me pretty obvious that without great cleverness, care and persistence any internet website, any posting, with barrages of quick reaction tossed out, easily will tend to produce much squabble and misunderstanding rather than rich communication of ideas.  Not surprising to me when anyone selectively bows out of participation or just disappears.

-- Tarvuist getting my $50/month worth from that fees I pay my ISP  -- by yakking away all day on here everywhere today.