I was very much not a premie by that time but still married to my ex husband. Had just moved to California. I am pretty sure I went with him to something in Long Beach mostly just to see if I would see old friends. Weirdest thing is I think Jennifer Warnes sang ... ? Year would have been 1984-1989 but obviously bee a long long time. I don't think there was Darshan but damn yeah if anything needs a trigger warning g that does and his screechy voice!
My ex also went to something in Palm Springs area in those years. I went with him and hung out at the hotel. Never went to the "event" just treated it as a vacation.
